I received an email from a gentleman the other day thanking me for the great time he had when he called my cheap phone sex service for the first time. I receive lots of emails and feedback from my callers but this particular one rang a bell because it has been a recurrent theme over the years, one which has often brought an affectionate smile to my face, and at the same time made me unsure as to how I should respond other than with the usual arguments.
Here is the email.
Hello Sandra. I just wanted to send you a few words and thank you for the lovely time I had with one of your girls. This was my very first time using a phone sex service, actually this was the first time I actually did not put the phone down before the call was completed as in too many instances in previous attempts, I was too shy to even let the phone ring, let alone let you guys answer it.
I can only say that I am sorry I was too shy before. I am 37 years old. I am reasonably self confident, and yet I was too shy to call. I have no idea why, maybe the psychologists might have an answer, but all I can say is that I wish I hadn’t. I had a lovely time. It was unexpected, and I will call again, now that I have crossed the line.
The truth of the matter is, lots of people are hesitant, or too shy to call a phone sex line and here are some of the reasons.
- They feel embarrassed to share their sexual fantasies with strangers
- They don’t know what to expect
- They don’t think phone sex can deal with the urgency of their sexual needs
- They are weary of scams
- They don’t have enough money
- They don’t think they should be paying for sex
I will talk about the first point in this article and write about the remaining points in later articles.
1. They feel embarrassed to share their sexual fantasies with strangers
This is a common trend not just in the phone sex industry but as a matter of course in a person’s day to day dealings. Spouses don’t feel comfortable sharing their most intimate desires with one another, so it is not surprising they don’t feel comfortable sharing them with others.
The reason for this is fear. Fear of being judged or even ridiculed. I have a particular caller who has a very common mmf (man, man, female) involving some bisexual acts on his part, sometimes forced bisexuality, other times cuckold scenario. Sometimes one of the man is replaced by a shemale, but the recurrent theme in his (delicious) fantasy is the presence of more than one… cock… After a particular raunchy call, having had the time to recover from his explosive release, he confessed that he wished he’d have the courage to speak to his wife about this, but he was afraid that she would regard him as less than a man if he did.
Here are my thoughts on this subject.
As far as phone sex professionals are concerned, (ME and my girls) there is NOTHING, absolutely nothing that would ever shock us when it comes to sexual fantasies. Let me say this again: Whatever it is that you fantasize about, we have heard it before. We certainly do not judge, (judging would go against our Raison d’être).
As far as talking to your wife is concerned, I don’t know of any woman with a healthy sexual appetite who would judge her man negatively because of an admission on his part of a particular fantasy. She might be surprised at first, might not even have ever heard of your particular fetish but give her time. Go slowly. I will explain how you can do so in a future article.
In conclusion, if you are afraid of calling me for cheap phone sex because you are shy, don’t be. You will love every moment of every call you make. I promise you.
